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Tips For Men Who Want To Date Younger Girls

Advice On How To Date Younger Women

Some guys who want to be dating younger women think the “age gap” works against them. These guys assume that their age puts them at a disadvantage and makes them less desirable than younger men.

This is not true. Here are two points to remember when you want to attract younger women:

#1. Never try to conceal your age, and never express any concerns about you being older. Bring it out into the open right away, and USE your age as a way to make her want to prove herself to you. She should be the one who is worried she is not on your level!

For example, let’s say you ask her how old she is, and she tells you “21.” To this, I would say: “Wow, I’m 33 years old and you’re only 21? I’ve usually dated women that are closer to my own age. I like women that are sophisticated and have some life experience.”

Wow. That’s an extremely confident, direct thing to say to a young woman. It’s not arrogant or offensive. It shows you have HIGH STANDARDS with the women you date.

Can she measure up to your standards? Well, now is her chance to show you.

You didn’t say, “I can’t date you, you’re too young and inexperienced.”

You said, “I date women who are sophisticated and experienced.”

So, if she wants to hang out with you, she’s going to need to demonstrate that she has these qualities.

How To Date Younger Women

 

dating a younger womanYou’ve put a CHALLENGE out there, and women get turned on by a man who challenges them to step up!

Now, throw her a question and make her PROVE that she can hang with a sophisticated guy like you: “But I have to admit, you do seem kind of mature for your age. So tell me some of the things you’re into.”

This is so powerful on a psychological level. Right from the beginning, you’re establishing that you have no insecurity at all about your age; you love being your age, because it means you’re at a secure, confident, experienced stage in your life.

You know about all kinds of cool and interesting things. As an older guy, you’ve been to cool places and done amazing things. The only question is, is SHE worthy of hanging out with a guy like YOU? You see, when you “turn the tables” this way, you begin to attract younger women with far greater consistency. www.youngerdating.com/home

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Crucial Skills When Dating Young Girls By Ron Louis

Why is it that some guys consistently succeed at dating and having sex with younger women, while others simply drool over younger chicks and never succeed? Is it because some older guys are “naturals,” while others are born losers?

No way. While there are naturals out there, I wholly believe that attraction is a set of skills anyone can learn. Some guys may need to work harder than others. Some men face more of an uphill battle, but I believe that succeeding with women involves learning a set of skills, behaviors, and beliefs, which combined add up to success with women of any age. (Having a pair of balls, and knowing how to deal with rejection, are part of this, too.)

That said, if you follow the advice we have set out in this book you will be the type of guy that succeeds with younger women on a consistent basis. For some guys this may take a few months of constant work; for others, it may happen next weekend. Success is inevitable if you work at this in a disciplined and consistent manner.

Skills Needed To Date Young Women

The next logical question is, what specific skills should you work on? It seems that every dating guru has a different approach, a different focus, and a different method. Which one to pick? Who is better? What makes the most sense?

What I’m presenting in this chapter are some of the commonalities in all of the dating gurus we have included in this book. And trust us when we say that we worked hard to find the very best and most successful dating gurus in the world. We interviewed guys from very different backgrounds and with different styles of succeeding with women—yet all of them produce amazing results for themselves and their clients.

I want to stress to you that succeeding with younger women is not rocket science. It is not as difficult as you have been making it out to be. Success with younger women is not as complicated, nor as challenging as you believe it is. To start, you need to be aware that older guys date younger women all the time. Every day and every night, in every city in the world, older guys are succeeding with younger women. These guys are not necessarily more attractive, richer, taller, or cooler than you.

One of the problems with dating “theory” is that it is often difficult to apply to real-life situations. If you’ve been studying books or have attended seminars by the “gurus,” you’ve probably read too much dating theory in your life already.  You need to learn how to put these skills into practice in actual situations.

The next question you may be asking is what you should specifically do, say, and talk about with younger women. From my standpoint, and from coaching tons of older guys out in the field in seminars and coaching programs, there is a typical set of problems they seem to have in common, and gaps in how they approach and talk to younger women. We’re going to cover those myths and stopping points in this chapter, and also explain the major “skill groups” you need to master to greatly increase your game with women.

Success With Younger Women

The key difference between you at this point, and the men who enjoy success with younger women, is that they simply take action and get into the game, and you probably do not. Yes, there are some skills you should learn and new behaviors you’ll need to adapt, but the most important key to scoring with a younger babe is getting the hell out of your house and going out to meet and approach women.

This article will help you develop a solid game plan and an awareness of the skills you’ll need to work on. We want you to master the art of meeting and succeeding with younger women, and enjoy this new attitude and skill set for the rest of your life. (Even if you enter into a committed relationship with one woman, as is the goal for most men, maintaining the right attitude and skills will ensure that her attraction towards you never cools off.) Click here for more surefire tips on how to date young women.

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Would You Rather Be Dating Younger Women?

How To Date Younger Women

The other day, a friend of mine asked for my thoughts on older men dating younger women. And, did I have any special approaches or pickup lines to use with younger women?

First of all, you should understand that older man dating younger women is a totally natural inclination. And yet, a lot of men don’t think they have the ability to meet and date a really attractive younger woman.

Well the good news is, not only is it possible for you to date younger women — it’s actually easier than you think. The essential thing to remember is that younger babes actually like to be with older guys.

It’s true that you can absolutely succeed with dating younger women. This is the indisputable truth.Over 200 years ago, the US government started recording statistics for the ages of couples that were getting married. You may be surprised to learn that every year, the age gap between men and women who get married grows wider.

The bottom line is, the average age difference between husbands and wives continues to expand.

Here’s another fascinating statistic: guys who marry for a second time are normally doing it with women who are around 10 years younger.

Another interesting fact is that 20% of men who marry for a second time are getting hitched to a woman that is over 20 YEARS YOUNGER.

{A woman who is twenty years younger?? The horror! The “Femi-Nazis” get angry when they hear this! They’ll say it’s creepy! Perverted!

And yet, no one seems to care if a super-successful or famous man marries a babe who is way younger than he is.

Donald Trump? Have you seen how beautiful his wife is? They had a baby not too long ago, and they’re very happy together…

What about the Hollywood star Michael Douglas? (For quite a while now he’s been married to Catherine Zeta-Jones, the striking actress. ‘Nuff said.)

Date Younger Women

dating younger womenI could give you a ton of other examples. This has been the deal all throughout history. It’s only in modern times that a double-standard has emerged — that it’s all right for a driven, successful older man to be with younger women, but it’s somehow “wrong” for the regular dude to pursue this course.

So why, exactly, do older men have such a great inclination to be with a younger partner? Well it actually goes much deeper than him simply wanting a young hottie with a firm body. It’s because this is what men are biologically PROGRAMMED to want: a youthful, sexy, fertile babe who will bear him healthy children.

Moreover, it’s not only about sex and procreation. According to research, it’s been shown that a younger partner can quite literally extend a man’s life span. In a sense, her youth is “contagious” and will keep her husband active (and not just in the bedroom!)

The bottom line is, the longing to desire to be dating younger women is a normal, perfectly healthy desire.

To start being with younger women there is a strategy you need to start employing. It is a technique that I use all the time, and I’ve seduced stunning younger women right out from under their hunky 22 year old lovers! Click here for more

 

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Create Conversations Based On Authenticity

Emotionally guarded people are boring, and success with younger chicks is all about coming across as an interesting guy. So, you need to learn to express yourself around women in a unique manner.

I believe every one of us has a fascinating person inside. You’ve had interesting experiences and have unique ways of viewing the world, but you may have a tendency to “dumb yourself down” around women and fail to communicate your interests and passions.  You may also be masking the “real you” because you figure you ought to play it safe and go with her flow.

A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to “mirror” women, thinking that this will create a connection. If she’s talking about her problems and frustrations, he talks about his. If she’s happy and enthusiastic, he puts on a “happy” front and tries to relate to her on that level. If she talks about her dramatic relationship with her ex-boyfriend, he’ll go on and on about his ex-wife, etc.

It’s when you come across as authentic that women will truly relate to you—and respect your confidence in who you are, and what you bring to the table.

What is authenticity?

  • Being real
  • Being opinionated
  • Risking looking stupid
  • Risking rejection
  • Being raw
  • Being emotional
  • Being intense
  • Being passionate
  • Having a sense of humor

Try Out Lots Of Different Types Of Approaches

As I said earlier, every dating “guru” teaches a slightly different method and has different ideas about how to find and meet women. Just as each woman is different and requires a slightly different approach, each man reading this book is different, too.

For you to feel comfortable and be your best “seductive self,” you’ll need to find ways of approaching and interacting with women that fit your personality and style.

The only way to find your unique voice is to try out all sorts of different approaches, until you find what works for you.

Don’t get stuck in one way of interacting with women that doesn’t feel authentic to you.

I’ve seen older guys trying to act like 20-year-old frat guys and attempting to use ghetto slang and approaches that seem immature and inappropriate.

(They’re failing miserably with women, in case you were wondering.) I’ve also seen older guys use approaches that had them appear too reserved, professorial, and uptight. These men also  failed, big time. You must go out and try different types of approaches,  in a variety of different social situations, to find out how to best succeed with younger women in ways that feel congruent to you.

Convey A Paradoxical Personality

Women love paradoxical guys. Women crave men who are complicated and mysterious, not simple and easy to figure out.

To start, answer these questions: What is it that women would not expect about you? How are you paradoxical?

Every man reading this is paradoxical at some level. You have the ability to portray many different aspects of your personality at one time. You do this by sharing and revealing different points of view that you hold, sharing unique stories, and showing that you, in your own way, are paradoxical.

Show a woman that:

  • You are a gentleman and a “bad” boy at the same time.
  • You are sexual and trustworthy at the same time.
  • You’re ambitious and focused, but also know how to cut loose and party.
  • You can be hot and cold: giving her your undivided attention, then being unavailable when she wants to see you or talk to you on the phone.
  • You can be both edgy and sweet.
  • You can be emotionally available and emotionally turbulent at the same time.
  • You can be dramatic and serious, and also silly and playful.
  • You’re a funny guy who doesn’t take life too seriously, but you can also talk about deep, introspective topics.

You can accomplish this through telling stories and sharing details of your life that highlight different aspects of your personality especially things about yourself that a woman will not expect.

Be Emotional

We all know that women love, and bond through, emotions. Emotions are like your “artist’s palette” when you’re constructing conversations with women. It is emotional intensity that changes the tone and vibe of a conversation, and by subtly tweaking the emotional content, you can change the mood dramatically.

Learning to speak the language of women means using emotions in your stories, and in your conversations. You need to learn how to include EMOTIONAL CONTENT when asking questions and making statements.

Come up with stories from your life on the following topics:

  • A time you felt frustrated or angry.
  • A time you were really scared.
  • A funny but embarrassing story.
  • A story about a time you felt overwhelmed with excitement or joy.

You need to start utilizing emotional content to create a deeper sense of rapport with women. When you do so, they will feel more connected to you. When you don’t, women will feel that the conversation is more platonic and boring.

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Frame Yourself With Young Women

Younger women haven’t been beaten down by the drudgeries of life, by failed dreams and lousy relationships. There is a spark to them, and a lack of cynicism, that is extremely difficult to find in women who’ve been through the emotional hell of divorce, or been out there on the singles scene long past their expiration date.

You may not feel comfortable expressing these preferences to your married pals, because it would probably generate resentment and jealousy.They’ll bust on you and call you a “dirty old man” or a “cradle robber” for dating a 25-year-old…and then they’ll go to strip clubs, or wack off to porn featuring women who are much younger than that!

And forget about trying to explain to a woman your age that you’re in the market for a young girlfriend. This is when the claws come out! It isn’t just feminists who would howl in anger; women, in general, feel threatened by the notion of men dating women who are substantially younger.  They call it wrong. They say it’s creepy. They’ll accuse you of being “shallow” and “emotionally immature.”

As if your “soulmate” needs to be some bitter divorcee who’s been hardened by years of being in the wrong relationships. Is that really something you need to have in common with a woman? Their hostility and resentment comes from a place of fear. If every man over the age of 40 had the confidence and ability to date women who were ten of fifteen years younger, how many of these guys do you think would marry 40-year-olds?

My guess would be, not many. The “mature” single women would be forced to seek solace in reruns of Sex & The City and one-night stands at the bars. But in our society, most older men will limit their dating options to women their own age, because they’re stuck in one of two mental ruts:

Sex And The City Concept

#1. They worry that it would be socially inappropriate for them to date a younger woman. People might stare and gossip! His friends, who are with women their own age, would make jokes and their girlfriends and wives would look at him with derision.

In reality, the only stares and snide comments you’ll receive will be from jealous men, and older women who feel threatened. Just watch them grab their man’s arm when they catch him checking out the sexy young babe on your arm…

#2. The guy feels too old, out of step, of a different generation. Sure, he’d love to be banging the babe with the perky breasts and the thong peeking out from the back of her jeans…but how do you talk to a girl like that? How do you approach her without seeming like someone’s creepy uncle?

Both us these attitudes are limiting beliefs that are easily overcome, and in this blog I’m going to explain exactly how to conquer them and be a MAN (not a boy!) that younger women will not just want to talk to they’ll be attracted to you in a powerful, authentic way.

I’m going to speak very directly and honestly in this article “political correctness” be damned and the first lesson I want you to absorb is that there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to date and have sex with younger women (as long as they’re of legal age, of course gotta say once more for the record!

When it comes to dating younger women, there is a double standard in our society: if you’re a man who is famous and/or powerful, it’s completely acceptable for you to be with women who are much younger.

It’s actually expected not to the extent that it was centuries ago, when rulers maintained harems of nubile, fertile young women to carry on their genetic legacy but you’ll rarely see today’s business moguls and celebrities marrying and having children with women their own age.

Among today’s  stars of movies, television, and music, it’s common for them to have a “starter wife” their own age that they marry before their rise to the top but once the bucks are rolling in, and they have options, wife #1 gets jettisoned in favor of a younger, hotter version.

I’m not saying this is the “right” thing to do, but I can certainly understand their motives. As the comedian Chris Rock said, “a man is only as faithful as his options.”

I’ll assume that you’re not touring in a famous rock band, or have a starring role in the next summer blockbuster. You’re a regular guy in most respects, but you have special goals in your dating/sex life you want to date younger women.

Desire To Date Young Women

The Hollywood celebrities who marry younger babes are no different than you, fundamentally. We’re all men. We’re wired the same way. We desire these younger women for common, fundamental reasons, which I’ll explain in a moment.I just want to stress that there is absolutely no shame in desiring to date younger women whether your goal is to enjoy a fast-lane bachelor lifestyle (my personal preference), or to find a partner to settle down with.

The goal of this article is to assist you in this quest, without ever resorting to being a “sugar daddy.” That’s the term used to describe older men who rent the companionship of younger women by subsidizing their high-maintenance lifestyles.

Notice I used the word “rent” rather than “buy,” because these relationships never last.  It’s true that money can’t buy you love. It can pay for a lot of great sex, but in the long-term, is it ever genuine love? If you’re a “sugar daddy,” the answer is no. I hate to tell you rich guys, but your hot young chick is probably laughing all the way to the bank and likely screwing guys her own age, while you’re out working to keep her in the lifestyle she’s become accustomed to.

So would this imply that when a guy like Donald Trump marries a woman who is decades younger, the relationship can’t possibly be “real?” No. The relationships between older men and younger woman can absolutely be real, and the bond can actually be more powerful than the one that exists between two people of the same age.

The difference between Trump (to use one example), and your typical “sugar daddy,” is that Trump is an Alpha Male, driven to survive and thrive. Alphas are able to engender extremely deep feelings of sexual attraction in women.

It doesn’t matter if the guy is 60 years old, or 25: if he exhibits Alpha Male qualities, women will be drawn into his orbit like moths to a flame. He can even be an arrogant jerk; it doesn’t matter. That is the man she wants to protect her and bear children with. For more tips and surefire tactics on how to date younger women, click here.

 

 

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The Myth of the Mid-Life Crisis

Hey, it’s Dean again. I’d like to share with you a comment that was posted on the Mack Tactics blog. It came from a guy who had an interesting question about this topic. My reply includes some revealing information about the whole idea of the “mid-life crisis,” which in my opinion, is fiction as far as men are concerned. With women, however, the notion of the “biological clock” is absolutely real.

Dean,

I recently turned 40. This birthday hit me harder than I thought it would. I’ve been reflecting on my life, and I decided to “turn back the clock” and start acting and feeling younger. (Most of my married buddies act like they’re 40 going on 65!)

I went to the salon and had the gray colored out of my hair, I bought a new wardrobe of cool clothes, and I’ve been going to the gym and getting in shape. I see this as self-improvement, but my wife says I’m going through a “midlife crisis.” She’s even suspicious that I might be cheating on her. (I’m not.)

I’ve been with her for 12 years and we’ve got two kids together. I still love her, but to be honest, there’s a part of me that does want to be back out there on the scene, flirting with women and dating. Maybe I just want to prove to myself that I’ve “still got it.”

Is this just a natural phase that guys my age go through, and grow out of?

Ray, New York

dating young girlsI recently read an interesting book called “Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters.” It was written by two evolutionary psychologists.

This brand of psychology believes that people are basically an animal species, and that today we’re still driven by the same animal needs that motivated us 10,000 years ago.

As men, our most powerful impulse is the need to find the right mate (or mates) and produce healthy offspring, in order to ensure our genetic legacy.

Women, meanwhile, are searching for a man with the right qualities to make them feel secure, and to have children with.

A woman might date around or get married in the meantime, but if her husband doesn’t have Alpha Male traits, it won’t be long before she starts checking out other options.

Simply put, a non-Alpha is never going to completely fulfill her core needs. He could be the nicest, sweetest guy in the world. He can give her everything she wants. But if he’s not supplying what she needs qualities such as emotional strength, and the ability to make decisions and lead he’s either going to lose her, or they’re going to wind up stuck in a hostile, unhappy relationship.

Throughout history, the great conquerors, politicians and moguls have usually been driven by the desire to become more sexually attractive to women, which therefore gives them more reproductive options. (Do you actually think most politicians choose that career out of a sincere desire to better the world…or do you think, perhaps, they’re motivated by more primal hungers?)

Men of high status are much more likely to attain “high reproductive success” than men of lowly status. Moulay Ismail the Bloodthirsty, the last Sharifian emperor of Morocco, left more offspring—1,042—than anyone else on record. A more recent example we all know is Bill Clinton, the most powerful man in the world during his tenure as president, who risked everything for a fling with a 24-year-old intern.

People said Clinton was crazy to do so, but from an evolutionary perspective, what he did was perfectly logical. Asking why a powerful man would cheat on his wife is like asking why a rich man would spend money. They do it because they can.

Midlife Crisis

dating young girls

I don’t condone cheating, and I’m not excusing it, but I understand why it happens. And we’ve all heard about guys going through the dreaded “midlife crisis.” Usually this involves a guy who hits a certain age, and suddenly feels the urge to look and act more youthful. (The cliché is the balding middle-aged guy who goes out and splurges on a new sports car.)

Evolutionary psychologists believe the “midlife crisis” is real, but it happens for reasons you wouldn’t expect. It’s not because the man has reached middle age; it’s because his wife has.

The “crisis” is triggered because his wife is about to enter (or has entered) menopause, meaning she can no longer reproduce. She has hit the “wall of death.” This makes the man feel a subconscious need to attract younger women, in order to have a way to continue producing offspring.

On a conscious level, the middle-aged guy might not have any interest in having more kids. But on a deeper, primal level, he is being driven to pursue this. He’s not thinking to himself, “My wife is getting too old to bear children, so I’d better go out there and find a fertile young babe.” But his subconscious mind is telling him to do so.

Here’s the other interesting thing. According to this theory, a 50-year-old guy married to a 25-year-old woman is not going to experience a midlife crisis. But a 25-year-old guy, married to a 50-year-old woman, will!

So, the crisis really doesn’t have anything with the man reaching a certain age. It’s all about the age of his partner.

Some other interesting points that are raised by the evolutionary psychologists who wrote, “Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters”:

Why do many men consider the “perfect hottie” to be a young woman with long blond hair, large breasts and a slim waist? (And why do so many women color their hair, diet and exercise, and undergo cosmetic surgery to achieve this look?)

The authors say it has nothing to do with the famous sex symbols who have embodied this look over the years. There is a much deeper evolutionary logic.

Long before the creation of television and the movies, in 15th century Italy, women were dying their hair blond. A recent study conducted in Iran, where access to Western media is limited, showed that women in that country are more concerned with their body image, and have a stronger desire to lose weight, than women in America.

In other words, it’s impossible to blame the media and celebrities like Marilyn Monroe, Pamela Anderson, Britney Spears, etc. for the fact that blond, slim and busty is generally considered to be the “ultimate” form of beauty.

This has been the most widely admired “look” for centuries, because men are biologically compelled to want to mate with these women.

But why, exactly? First, men prefer younger women because they tend to be healthier and more fertile. Thousands of years ago, nobody maintained birth records or carried ID; in order to know someone’s age, their appearance was all you had to go on.

Hair is one obvious indicator of age. Healthy young women have lustrous, shiny hair; sickly people do not. A woman with long hair has obviously been healthy for a number of years (long enough for her hair to grow to that length).

Likewise, breasts especially large ones are going to sag with age. If a woman’s breasts are large and firm, that’s another clear indicator that she’s still young and healthy. Just by looking at her, a man in ancient times could evaluate her age, health status, and reproductive value.

Men’s Preference For Women

Men also have a preference for women with a low waist-to-hip ratio, because this also indicates that they are healthy and fertile. They’re better able to conceive children because this body type means they have high amounts of the necessary reproductive hormones. Studies have shown that women with large breasts and small waists have the highest levels of estradiol and progesterone, hormones that are necessary to reproduce.

This is why subconsciously; most men are drawn towards women with this “look.” They’re not attracted to young, slim, busty blonds because these women resembles the famous beauties they see on television and in magazines; the reason that we’re attracted to these women, and why women with this look are able to become famous in the first place, lies in our genetic programming and our primal desires.

Furthermore, blond hair tends to change with age, unlike other hair colors. Young girls with light blond hair usually evolve into women with brown hair, which eventually turns gray.

Interestingly, blond hair first evolved in northern Europe and Scandinavia. Evolutionary psychologists believe that this was an evolutionary response to the heavy clothing that women wore in those times, to conceal their bodies; regardless of how they covered up, blond hair was a giveaway that they were young and had reproductive value.

Nowadays, of course, there are various ways for women to alter their looks to fit this model: facelifts, liposuction, breast augmentation, hair coloring, etc. The funny thing is that men fall for it or at least, our subconscious minds do.

You can look at a 40-year-old woman and know she’s had a tit job, various other cosmetic surgeries, and colors her hair (Pamela Anderson comes to mind), but because she’s still got the qualities that imply reproductive value, our “primitive brains” desire her.

Centuries ago, plastic surgery didn’t exist but today, we’re still sizing up women using the same visual cues that our ancestors used, when they were hunting for women to mate with. Fashions change. Music changes. The world moves forward. But our internal hard-wiring will always remain and this not only means that we’re programmed to want younger women, it also means they desire us.

 

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How To Meet And Date Younger Women

Advice On How To Date Younger Women

Recently, a friend of mine asked me what I thought about older men dating younger women, and if I had any distinctive “pickup lines” for approaching and flirting with younger women.

First of all, you need to realize that older man dating younger women is a perfectly natural situation. But when most men get to a certain age, they start thinking that beautiful younger women are simply out of their league.

Well, I’m going to explain to you that it’s not only possible for you to be dating younger women — it’s also easier than you might think. The imperative thing to keep in mind is that younger women actually PREFER to be with older guys.

You can absolutely be dating younger women. This is the indisputable truth.Over 200 years ago, the US government started recording statistics for the ages of people that were getting married. Each year, there is a larger gap between the ages of men and women who marry each other.

Essentially, the average age difference between husbands and wives continues to expand.

Another interesting fact is that when men get married for the SECOND time, they marry women who are 10 years younger, on average.

Another interesting fact is that 20% of men who marry for a second time are getting married to a woman that is over 20 YEARS YOUNGER.

{A woman who is twenty years younger?? The horror! The “Femi-Nazis” get infuriated when they hear this! They’ll say it’s strange! Deviant!

And yet, no one minds if a super-successful or famous man marries a babe who is way younger than he is.

I mean, no one batted an eye when Donald Trump re-married and got hitched to some beautiful young model. Years later, they still seem extremely content with each other.

Meet And Date Younger Women

 

meet and date younger womenAnother example is the actor Michael Douglas. He is still married to the striking (and much younger) Catherine Zeta-Jones — and in reality, if these marriages were just about money and celebrity, they would soon fall apart. But in a lot of examples like these ones, they do.

I could give you a ton of other examples. This has been true all throughout history. It’s only in modern times that a double-standard has emerged — that it’s okay for a driven, successful older guy to be with younger women, but it’s somehow “wrong” for the run of the mill guy to pursue this route.

So why, exactly, do older men have such a prevailing urge to be with a younger partner? Well it actually goes much deeper than him simply wanting a young stunner with a firm body. It’s because this is what men are biologically hard-wired to want: a young, sexy, fertile woman who will bear him healthy children.

And it’s not just about sex and having kids. Studies have shown that dating a younger woman actually increases the life span of the guy. Her youthful enthusiasm and energy LITERALLY rubs off on you, and makes you feel, and act, younger.

In essence, the longing to desire to be dating younger women is a natural, perfectly healthy desire.

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Tips For Dating A Hot Younger Woman

Tips On How To Date Younger Women

Recently, a pal of mine asked for my thoughts on older men dating younger women. And, did I have any specific approaches or pickup lines to use with younger women?

For starters, older men dating younger women is perfectly normal. The funny thing is, most guys think really attractive younger women are “out of their league.”

Well, I’m going to explain to you that it’s not only possible for you to be dating younger women — it’s also easier than you might think. The principal thing to remember is that younger girls actually PREFER to be with older guys.

You can absolutely succeed with dating younger women. I’m stating a simple fact.Over 200 years ago, the US government started recording statistics for the ages of people that were getting married. You may be surprised to hear that each year, the age gap between men and women who get married grows larger.

Basically, the average age difference between husbands and wives continues to get bigger.

Here’s another remarkable statistic: men who tie the knot for a second time are usually doing it with women who are around 10 years younger.

How To Date A Younger Woman

dating hot younger womenHere’s another thing to consider: in twenty percent of these second marriages, the guy is over twenty years younger than his wife.

{A wife who is 20 years younger?? The horror! The “Femi-Nazis” get livid when they hear this! They’ll say it’s weird! Going against nature!

The irony is, no one seems to disapprove if the guy is rich and famous. Then he is basically expected to marry a much younger spouse.

I mean, no one batted an eye when Donald Trump re-married and got married to some stunning young model. Years later, they still seem exceedingly content with each other.

Another example is the actor Michael Douglas. He is still married to the gorgeous (and much younger) Catherine Zeta-Jones — and in fact, if these unions were just about cash and fame, they would never last. But in a lot of cases, they do.

I could provide many more examples. It’s a very long list. The fact is, it is EXPECTED for successful guys to marry women who are many years younger than they are.

So why, exactly, do older men have such a potent impulse to be with a younger partner? It goes a lot deeper than just wanting a hot young babe. The deeper reasons are rooted in our biology; men are hard-wired to want a woman who is in good physical shape, young and fertile, who has the best chance of bearing his children and carrying on his genetic legacy.

Also, it’s not only about sex and procreation. According to research, it’s been shown that a younger woman can quite literally prolong a man’s life span. In a sense, her youth is “contagious” and will keep her husband active (and not just in the bedroom!)

When all’s said and done, the yearning to desire to be dating younger women is a normal, perfectly healthy desire.

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The Sheriff’s View on Dating A Young Girl

Funny enough, the Love Systems instructor who goes by the name of Sheriff had recently posted some of his thoughts about older men and younger women in the Love Systems lounge.

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Here’s Sheriff had to say recently:

I’ve been talking to a lot of younger girls (18-19) at the moment, and actually making a real effort to hang out with people younger than me – most of my good friends are typically a bit older than I am.

I was having a bunch of issues connecting with younger girls, but being the instructor-par-excellence I am, I decided to become an expert on this. Here’s what I’ve learned since I decided to handle this a couple of months ago but bear in mind that of the pool of perhaps 12 girls I’ve cultivated here who are between 18 and 19, all are RICH and used to living a life of luxury where maids, drivers, and beach houses are par for the course.

Young Girls And Their Social Intuition

The first thing I’ve noticed: you need to ground your interest ASAP.  Younger girls lack much of the social intuition older girls have. They’re often socially slightly scared of older guys and girls – they’re only recently out of high school where relative age is a BIG DEAL where dating a guy a few years older than you carries a status that in the real world is totally missing.

Get onto normal conversation and commonalities QUICKLY, and qualify a non-sexual interest in that, even if it’s something dumb like where she’s from, OR she’ll be confused by and creeped out by your interest.

The second thing I’ve noticed: younger girls are crap at picking up IOIs (Indicators Of Interest).

And often fail to see when you’re into them unless you make it pretty obvious.  So, be explicit with your IOIs and “Why I like You”s.

I was assuming that girls weren’t in to me (doh) and not escalating properly in my social circle. But hadn’t realized that in a number of cases, the girls seriously thought I was out of their league.

While I’ll tease younger girls, I’ll also now make a big effort to be NICE to them no hard-core qualification.  Many of them don’t yet have the cynical edge of older girls, and if you’re used to building attraction through effortlessly pushing aside shit-tests, you’re going to be in trouble if there are none forth-coming.

The third thing I’ve noticed: high quality younger girls tend to be heavily idealistic, even if those views seem naive to you.

If a young, rich girl tells you how she’s thinking of going to live in an artist’s commune, rather than cracking up uncontrollably, reward her for that.  If she tells you how she thinks it’s stupid, but still think she might be a famous actress one day despite no acting experience to date, doesn’t laugh in her face, and don’t give her shit for it.

Qualify and encourage these.  You might be surprised by how much of your qualification work you’re doing just by being an older, successful guy who’s actually taking her seriously.

The fourth thing I’ve noticed: younger and older girls respond well to age-specific qualification.

Favorable comparison to the other end of the age bracket is effective and consistent.  Younger girls will always hear about how I enjoy hanging out with younger girls, because they’re less cynical, more willing to express themselves and live in the moment, and because they’re more idealistic and not embittered.  Obviously, older women will hear about how much I like women with more life experience, etc.

The fifth thing I’ve noticed has to do with DHVs. (Demonstrations Of Higher Value this bit of “pickup terminology” means you say certain things to imply that you are a man of value and status. Not bragging, but making subtle comments to pique their interest.) I’ve found that  DHVs work differently on different age groups.

Older girls get the spiel carefully done, of course about how incredibly hooked up I am, and how successful I am in my various careers, and how mature I am. This was falling flat with younger girls.  So, I tried switching to talking about how FUN a lot of the stuff going on was, and switched to physical and state-based attraction.

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A Conversation With Zan Perrion: Part 2

Zan Perrion is an internationally acclaimed writer and professional speaker with a wonderful ability to inform and inspire audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life.

Over the years, his name has become synonymous with a more natural and enlightened form of interaction between men and women… the ars amorata, or “the art of love.”

Zan’s early writings and concepts have heavily influenced today’s international “seduction community.” Frequently featured as a guest and presenter in many parts of the world, he has never varied from his concept of a more “natural” approach to women, dating, and life.

Zan’s seminars and events sell out immediately and have garnered impressive reviews in every city they have been held, including Montreal, Toronto, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, New York, London, Panama, Tokyo, and Cape Town.

Author Neil Strauss devoted an entire chapter to him in his New York Times bestseller The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, calling Zan “…the undisputed heavyweight of the genre… in four years, he never once asked for advice, he only gave it.”

David DeAngelo (of Double Your Dating) has called Zan “an example of a true natural”. Mystery (of VH1’s The Pickup Artist) has proclaimed, “I want to be like Zan!”

Seattle’s Komo TV has called him “The World’s Greatest Seducer”. And in 2007, Zan played himself in the movie Let the Game Begin, starring Adam Rodriguez (of CSI: Miami), Thomas Ian Nicholas, Stephen Baldwin, Michael Madsen, and Lochlyn Munro.

Zan has also been a guest on many radio and television programs, has been featured in numerous newspaper and magazine articles, and is a regular dating advice columnist for both Bobbi and UMM magazines.

In addition, Zan is frequently invited to give lectures at colleges and universities around the world, including UC Berkeley, McGill University, and Queen’s University, among others.

His biggest fans at the end of the day, however, are not men, but women. This is because he subscribes to the notion that all women are beautiful. Every woman he has ever been connected with still consider him a beautiful part of their lives. Click here for the Part 1 of the interview.

Continuation…

dating younger womenLet’s get specific. Would you begin a conversation with a woman in her 20s, the same way you’d approach a woman your own age?

No. The first thing I tell the 25-year-old woman is my age. It sounds counter-intuitive, but I actually learned this from a guy who was 48 years old. He told me, “The first thing I tell a young girl is my age.” Within the first 30 seconds, essentially.

I didn’t believe him. Then I saw him in practice, actually doing it. He’d say, “So what’s your name?” She’d tell him, “Susan,” and then he’d say (playfully) “Y’know, I’m old enough to be your father, Susan, so this is never going to work.”

He’d make a joke like that, within the first minute that he was talking to her. That type of self-deprecating humor can be very confident humor, and it puts it out there. As I said it earlier, when age ceases to be an issue for you, it ceases to be an issue to her. I learned that, and I’ve used it ever since. In my 30s I used to do the same as most guys

skirt around the issue. Now I tell the 23 or 25-year-old, “I’m too told for you, it’ll never work,” in a joking, smiling, winking type of manner. It’s a powerful thing to present, because it shows a lot of confidence.

Are there certain venues you’d suggest to older guys who want to mix it up with younger women?

The guys that are older tend to not want to go to thumping, loud clubs. They’re just not interested in that. They’re not having fun; they don’t want to bounce around in a sweaty tee-shirt. The natural extension of that is they’ll want to gravitate towards more upscale lounges, quieter venues, places like restaurants.

As far as the venues go, I’d never advise a guy interested in younger women to go to the university hangout and act like he’s 21, and bounce around with the rest of them. The guy has to be true to who he is, what he wants to be involved in, and if he goes to environments in which he’s not comfortable, it’s not going to be congruent.

I’ve worked with students who feel awkward in any social situation where they’re hoping to interact with younger women. Talking to younger women at a bookstore, the mall or a coffee shop feels like a stretch to them. Is there a type of environment where these guys can feel more comfortable starting conversations?

Well, if you’re not comfortable going to the mall, or coffee shops, or going to clubs sometimes, interacting with younger women is just not going to happen as often as you’d like it to. If you want to meet younger women, you’ll have to go to where they congregate. That’s just how it works. And so, you have to be prepared for those types of environments.

How do you prepare? Do you have any specific tips such as how a man should dress?

You don’t want to be putting your baseball cap on backwards and wearing baggy pants (laughs). Dress in the manner of a man who has seen adventure in life. That means a way that you’re comfortable with, and still stylish and put together. Get some advice from women on what looks good on you, and try to dress to maximize that.

Don’t try to dress outside of your age maximize the sophistication of your age and convey a bit of an adventurous spirit. You’re a man of experience who has seen things. You’re on an adventure that women will want to go on with you. That’s how you want to come across.

dating younger girlsIs it necessary to “tailor” your conversational strategy when you’re talking to a 25-year-old, versus a woman who is substantially older?

That’s a good question, because a lot of the stuff that’s taught today [by seduction coaches] involves memorizing a lot of different stories, and interesting things to say, so that you’re bombarding her and there isn’t any “dead air.” I believe it’s better to come across as a man of purpose and adventure, who is not masking his age, and be massively curious about who this 25 year old woman is. Be curious in a way that is engaging, and comes from your center. It isn’t about you bombarding her with one-sided conversation.

The feeling should be like, “I know who I am, and I’m confident in that now tell me something interesting about you.” That’s the way the conversation, in concept, should flow. It’s a very attractive, powerful way of presenting yourself. You’re not bombarding her with facts and figures about your life, and what you’ve done. That will come across in your presence, your experience in the way you view the world, and the way that you move.

What about when it comes to closing the deal whether it’s getting her phone number, lining up a date, or trying to take her home? Does her age play a role in how you should try to achieve this?

There is a difference between women in their 20s, 30s and 40s. A 20-something is very likely looking for someone she wants to spend the rest of her days with. She’s thinking of the concept of someone that will share parenthood with, a guy she can take home to her parents and say, “this is the love of my life.” A woman in her 40s normally doesn’t have quite the same concept in mind. I’m generalizing here of course, but usually a woman that age has come into her own, so to speak, and she’s looking for someone who isn’t going to be intimidated by her.

And as a man, you need to ask yourself, what do you want, relative to the woman you’re talking to right now or dating? If she’s 23, and he’s 45, what is his desire for the future and what is hers? Marriage, children, the whole nine? There is certainly a difference in the way women view the world at those different ages, and what they want.

Do you see any potential downside to dating a woman much younger than yourself?

I don’t even consider it at all. You can’t really control who you’re attracted to. If you’re attracted to a younger woman in her 20s, it’s because of the qualities she possesses, and what she presents to the world. If you’re sincere and honest about who you are, her age doesn’t matter. You both have opportunities to grow, and that can last forever.

Well, I guess I’m referring to the “land mines” that I’ve occasionally encountered when dating younger women. They can be unpredictable sometimes, emotional, even explosive…

I have a notion that men have a mid-life crisis, and women have a quarter-century crisis. By that I mean, when women reach around 25 years old, they start to examine everything about their future, where they are in life. At 25 they consider the relationship that they’re in, they wonder if they’ve made the right career choice, and they see their friends getting married and they wonder if they want that, or if it’s going to happen.

25 years old is a turbulent time for women, and it can be especially so if they’re in a relationship. If you get together with a woman who’s in her early 30s, and she hasn’t been married before and has no children and I’m speaking generally here again that’s probably a large component of what she’s looking for in her future. Of course, that could be what you’re looking for, as well.

I’ve seen older men who were successful in the early stages with younger women, but once they’re in a relationship, managing the relationship becomes problematic. They resort to being a “sugar daddy” type, using money to hold onto her. What’s your take on this?

There are two ways to have a relationship with a younger woman. You can shower her with all kinds of material things—and for some women, that’s enough to make them stick around. However, will they love you for who you are? We see this model repeated over and over, where the older, wealthy guy has the young beautiful woman on his arm, but it’s not fulfilling or meaningful for either of them. Or, you can be curious about her, on an adventure together.

I talk to men a lot about that the idea of, not just going through life and settling in our careers and everything else we do, but heading out into this world on an adventure, with a definite purpose. Younger women and older women are attracted to that type of energy. It’s a way that has meaning. Age becomes irrelevant when you know who you are, and you don’t apologize for it.

Can you share any stories about men that you’ve coached, who’ve found meaningful relationships and love with younger women?

dating young girlsI’ve had many students from around the world in different seminars, and in various coaching situations, where the men are older and want to date younger women. I’ve had guys who are 55 years old. Every day, around the world, there are guys getting divorced. They may have been married for 10 years, or 20 years.

They might have businesses and everything else in their life handled, but now they’re alone again, and they don’t know how to re-enter the dating world. I have many examples of guys who shifted that one thing where they stopped hiding or masking their age and experience in this world, and started to emphasize it and what they have to contribute. That shift alone changed those guys.

I’ve got testimonials from men all over the world who say, “I tell women my age now without apology not because I’m trying to pretend it’s no big deal, but to put it out there, because it’s a confident thing to do.” It really changes the whole dynamic.

I had a student who is now married: he’s 49 and she’s 24. And he told me, the thing that shifted for him was this whole apologetic, “I’m older so I can’t offer what she wants” attitude. That perspective is completely flawed. We can change it. You can stand up tall on this earth. That mental block that older men have—they need to make friends with it, and start presenting who they are.

Any final words or wisdom for all the men who are ready to get out there and start dating younger women?

If you’re attracted to younger women, don’t apologize for it. Be true to who you are, and everyone will respect that. You’re not trying to manipulate anyone. If you just want a younger woman to show off to your buddies when you walk into a venue, you may want to examine what your motives and purposes are, and whether it’s congruent with what you want in life because you might just be looking for validation.

My big thing is being honest and coming across as a real man who doesn’t apologize for it, which is what too many men are doing in this day and age. You might be attracted to someone in their 20s, 30s, or 40s but I 100% believe that age is irrelevant when you know who you are.

Thanks for your time and insights, Zan. How can our readers find out more about your products and programs—and can they schedule one-on-one time with you?

I do a lot of private coaching, as well as some major weekend “intensives” in different cities of the world. I also travel a lot and speak at universities. My website is www.zanperrion.com and I also have a forum that is devoted to speaking about this new way of interacting, which is at www.naturalgame.com.

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