Women love paradoxical guys. Women crave men who are complicated and mysterious, not simple and easy to figure out. To start, answer these questions: What is it that women would not expect about you? How are you paradoxical?
Every man reading this is paradoxical at some level. You have the ability to portray many different aspects of your personality at one time. You do this by sharing and revealing different points of view that you hold, sharing unique stories, and showing that you, in your own way, are paradoxical.
Show a woman that:
- You are a gentleman and a “bad” boy at the same time.
- You are sexual and trustworthy at the same time.
- You’re ambitious and focused, but also know how to cut loose and party.
- You can be hot and cold: giving her your undivided attention, then being unavailable when she wants to see you or talk to you on the phone.
- You can be both edgy and sweet.
- You can be emotionally available and emotionally turbulent at the same time.
- You can be dramatic and serious, and also silly and playful.
- You’re a funny guy who doesn’t take life too seriously, but you can also talk about deep, introspective topics.
You can accomplish this through telling stories and sharing details of your life that highlight different aspects of your personality—especially things about yourself that a woman will not expect.
Be Emotional
We all know that women love, and bond through, emotions. Emotions are like your “artist’s palette” when you’re constructing conversations with women. It is emotional intensity that changes the tone and vibe of a conversation, and by subtly tweaking the emotional content, you can change the mood dramatically.
Learning to speak the language of women means using emotions in your stories, and in your conversations. You need to learn how to include EMOTIONAL CONTENT when asking questions and making statements.
Come up with stories from your life on the following topics:
- A time you felt frustrated or angry.
- A time you were really scared.
- A funny but embarrassing story.
- A story about a time you felt overwhelmed with excitement or joy.
You need to start utilizing emotional content to create a deeper sense of rapport with women. When you do so, they will feel more connected to you. When you don’t, women will feel that the conversation is more platonic and boring. Click here for more tips.
